I quit my stable job at a museum, and I am bidding farewell to my life in Oklahoma, and embarking on a journey to Germany with my husband and our beloved pets. This transition marks a major shift in my life. Suddenly, I found myself in the role of a stay-at-home wife and devoted dog mom. While it might sound like a dream to some, I grappled with a deep sense of purposelessness at the beginning of this new chapter.

The Utility Trap

For many years, I had defined my worth by my career and income. It was my source of pride and accomplishment. However, as I settled into my new role, I realized that life should not solely revolve around work. I had lost sight of the importance of balance and personal growth outside of my job.

Discovering My Motivation: Unlikely Companions

Amidst the chaos of moving and adjusting to this new life, I found my motivation in the most unexpected places—my dogs. They brought structure to my days, providing me with a sense of purpose and routine. This newfound rhythm allowed me to maintain my workout routine at home and spend quality time with my family, particularly my mom before the big move. Surprisingly, I discovered that I was less stressed than when I was working, despite the whirlwind of change around me.

Learning the Art of Balance

My journey has taught me that balance is key. I’ve come to realize the importance of working towards personal goals and the power of saying no, even to my partner. It’s essential to create space for yourself amidst the hustle and bustle of life. This newfound independence has allowed me to appreciate the beauty of each day without feeling rushed.

Planning with Intention and Listening to My Body

One of the most significant changes in my daily routine has been planning each day with intention. I’ve learned to prioritize self-care and listen to my body’s needs. This means allowing myself to rest when necessary and pushing myself when I’m feeling motivated. It’s all about finding that delicate balance that keeps my spirits high.

Stress-Relief Techniques That Work

Incorporating stress-relief techniques into my daily routine has been a game-changer. I’ve turned to home exercises, including stationary bike workouts, to stay physically active. Writing in a journal every day has allowed me to process my thoughts and emotions, providing much-needed clarity.

Finding Community and Support

Navigating this journey hasn’t been without its challenges, but I’ve discovered an incredible source of support through online communities. Facebook groups for military spouses and those going through a PCS move to Germany have been invaluable. Knowing that thousands of people have experienced similar situations, and in some cases, even more challenging ones, makes me feel less alone.

Takeaway

Life is an adventure filled with twists and turns, and sometimes, the greatest discoveries come when we embrace change with an open heart and mind. I’ve learned that personal growth doesn’t always require a career or a paycheck—it can be found in the little moments, the joys of daily life, and the pursuit of balance.

Let’s remember to find joy in the little things and to nurture our own well-being. Life is too short to be solely defined by work; it’s meant to be a beautiful mixture of vulnerability, growth, and uncertainty. It is our job to take the reins back in our lives and find happiness in our routines. Cheers to the in between!